Have you ever noticed that one you have realised you have a crush on a person you start to either believe that the smallest directed smile may be a hint that they like you or you, for some weird reason, start to notice that special crush everywhere. You notice them more than ever before. And I mean everywhere, with me it was around school, then on the high street or even in the local shopping centre.
So here is my dual- hypothesis:
- You only notice more than usual because your chemical being received by the brain is overclouding all of the other moments you were to notice.
For example, instead of noticing all the exact people in a crowd, you only notice that one person. You then, believe that they are being close to you more often. But, instead of being near you more they are actually being around you just the same amount of time as always its just you are noticing their presence more.
- Also due to the overload of chemicals you don't just notice them more but, you notice their actions more.
For example, after the noticing of your crush in a crowd now you notice the small details. It could be when he smiles in a laugh that you thought was directed in your way as a flirtatious technique. A chuckle at one of your bad jokes, an annoying routine/ habit that have or only focusing on the good things they say like if they said "You're awkward, annoying but pretty" you would only notice the compliment.
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